Baptism
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Baptism of Infants
As Baptism is entry into the Catholic Church it normally takes place in church. It can take place during a Sunday Mass or at a separate ceremony. Baptisms do not normally take place during Lent.
To have an infant Baptized, collect an application form from any of the four churches in the parish, fill it in, and return it to the Presbytery. One of the priests will then contact you to confirm the date and time, and to arrange a preparatory meeting with him.
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Baptism of older children
Please enquire at the Parish Office.
First Holy Communion & Reconciliation Programme
If your child is currently in Year 2 or older they will be eligible to enrol on our parish programme for First Holy Communion and Reconciliation.
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Registration
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Registration opens each year in July. The registration link will become live at that time.
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Family catechesis
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Pope Francis summed up what it means to be a Christian when he wrote ’Jesus Christ loves you; he gave his life to save you; and now he is living at your side every day to enlighten, strengthen and free you’. (Evangelii Gaudium 164)
As a parent/guardian, you took on the responsibility to ensure your child knows that Jesus loves them when you presented them for Baptism.
Pope St John Paul II’s homily during a First Holy Communion Mass in Cardiff during the papal visit to Britain in 1982 rings especially true for you as parents today.
’Dear parents of these children: your love for Christ has made this day possible. For you are your children’s first teachers in the ways of faith. By what you say and do, you show them the truths of our faith and the values of the Gospel. This is indeed not only a sacred duty, but a grace, a great privilege. Many other members of the Church share in this task, but the main responsibility for your children’s religious formation falls upon your shoulders. So try to make your homes genuinely Christian. Help your children to grow and mature as Jesus did at Nazareth, "in wisdom, in stature, and in favour with God and man" (Luke 2:52). Allow no one to take advantage of their lack of experience and knowledge. As you share with them in their personal pilgrimage to God, may you always be united in prayer and worship and in humble love of God and his people.’
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The church calls each family home a ’domestic church’, a place where we parents are called to both model and teach our children how to live holy lives by ordering our everyday activities towards Christ. In your ’domestic church’ this year our catechetical team will accompany you, the parents, during the programme, as you pray, listen, act and ponder together with your child. Additional support for parents will also be an integral part of the programme during the coming year, and you will be asked to commit to participate in these online sessions.
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We look forward to welcoming you and your families to our parish First Reconciliation and Holy Communion community.
God bless your families,
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Fr. Vipin James
Assistant Priest
St Thomas of Canterbury, Sevenoaks
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Confirmation
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Confirmation of younger people
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Registration for the YYYY Confirmation programme is NOW open. The program runs from June through to November. All those currently in Year 7 and above who have been Baptized and have received their First Holy Communion should register for this year’s programme. You can REGISTER ONLINE HERE or if not obtain a printed form from any of the four churches.
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Registration for the 2024 Confirmation Programme is not yet open. Application is usually open from late March trough to mid May. Each year, those currently in Year 7 and above who have been Baptized and have received their First Holy Communion should register for this year’s programme. You will be able to REGISTER ONLINE HERE or if not obtain a printed form from any of the four churches.
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Registration for the YYYY Programme is now closed. Registrations for next year's program should be available from March/April YYYY. Each year, those currently in Year 7 and above who have been Baptized and have received their First Holy Communion should register for this year’s programme. You will be able to REGISTER ONLINE HERE or if not obtain a printed form from any of the four churches. Please speak with Fr Priotr or Gabrielle Ellis if you have further questions.
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Why is the Sacrament of Confirmation so important?
The Sacrament of Confirmation is “necessary for the completion of Baptismal grace” (Catechism 1285); without it “Christian initiation remains incomplete” (1306). To put it another way, unless one is Confirmed one is not fully a Catholic and one has not received the fullness of the Holy Spirit, we need to lead a life worthy of being a disciple of Christ. A Catholic should have been Confirmed in order to Marry in the Church, to be a godparent at a Baptism, and so on.
Reconciliation (Confession):
Confessions are heard in St Thomas's on Saturdays 10:00am - 10:30am and 5:15pm - 5:45pm.
Or you can ask a priest before any Mass (if there is time) or after a Mass.
Marriage
Marriage Preparation
It is important please to contact Fr. David at least 6 months ahead of the proposed date of the wedding to plan preparations.
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Marriage Care (formerly CMAC):
For marriage support, marriage preparation, education work, counselling.
National Help Line: 0845 6606000 (10 am. - 4 pm.)
HQ. Clitherow House, 1 Blythe Mews, Blythe Road,
London W14 0NW, tel: 0207 371 1341.
Nearest Marriage Care Centre is Sevenoaks. tel: 0115 993 4255.
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Marriage Enrichment - Personal Development Courses:
The Parish offers a rolling programme published by the Family Caring Trust. All courses are skills-based and run in small, friendly groups. A creche is available for parenting courses.
Courses include:
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Parenting 0 - 6's
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Parenting 5 - 15's
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Parenting Teenagers. N.B. Starting on 11th May 2011 between 7.00 - 9.00pm on Wednesday evenings.
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Marriage Enrichment. N.B. For women married 5 to 15 years. Starting on Friday mornings in May, 9.30am to 11.30am.
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Assertiveness
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Assertiveness, young adults and teenagers
The Parish Newsletter will give announcements of upcoming courses, but for further information contact
Isabelle Parsons, tel:462504 or email: Isabelle.Parsons@Virgin.net
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RCIA - Adult reception into the Catholic Church
Knowing & Living Christian faith in Full Communion with the Catholic Church
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Who is God? Who is Jesus? Who is the Church? Discover how to answer these questions through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults, (RCIA), a process of prayerful study, fellowship, introductory rites & reception of the Sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation & the Eucharist.
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The full St Thomas Parish programme is provided every year and usually runs from October through to April. Reception into the Catholic Church is timed to coincide with Easter.
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The full St Thomas Parish programme is provided every year. The 2023/24 program runs from Monday 9 October 2023 through to April 2024.
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For All Enquiries please email Andrew Wilkinson or phone 07487 652846.
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The detailed schedule with topics and dates are now shown through until the Easter Vigil Reception.
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Dates
Mon 8 Jan 2024
Mon 15 Jan 2024
Mon 22 Jan 2024
Mon 29 Jan 2024
Mon 5 Feb 2024
Mon 12 Feb 2024
Sat 17 Feb 2024
Mon 19 Feb 2024
Mon 26 Feb 2024
Sun 3 Mar 2024
Mon 4 Mar 2024
Sun 10 Mar 2024
Mon 11 Mar 2024
Sun 17 Mar 2024
Mon 18 Mar 2024
Mon 25 Mar 2024
Sat 30 Mar 2024
Mon 8 Apr 2024
Sat 20 Apr 2024
PART 2: LIVING THE FAITH, with Rite of Election, the Scrutinies & Easter Reception
The Sacraments: Baptism & Confirmation.
The Eucharist: Source & Summit of Christian Life
Walk through the Mass: Exploring the Sacred Liturgy.
Penance & Annointing of the Sick: God's Mercy Revealed.
Matrimony & Holy Orders: The Sacraments of Communion.
A Catholic Moral Vision: Virtue, Grace & the Path to Happiness.
Rite of Election, St George's Cathedral.
A Love that Lasts I: Discovering Authentic Love.
A Love that Lasts II: God's Plan for Sexuality.
1st Scrutiny, 11.15 am Mass, St Thomas' Church
Catholic Social Teaching: Building a Civilisation of Love.
2nd Scrutiny, 11.15 am Mass, St Thomas' Church.
Catholic Social Teaching: Protecting the Dignity of the Human Person.
3rd Scrutiny, 11.15 am Mass, St Thomas' Church.
Easter Vigil Preparation
Walking the Church, Catholic Devotions & Review.
EASTER VIGIL RECEPTION
POST - RECEPTION SESSIONS
Service, Fellowship & Learning: domestic & parish church, wider community.
Retreat Day at Poult Barn.